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While there are closeted black men who sleep with men and women and black women who have acquired HIV by positive closeted men, studies show down low men are not fueling HIV among African American women. When it comes to sexual identity, Ayala said the “term ‘down low’ is extremely problematic because it is used to place blame on men presumed to be gay and can lead to criminalizing men living with HIV who might not disclose their status.”īeyond that, she said, the myth of the down low man has been debunked. Yes and no, said Sequoia Ayala, director of policy and advocacy at the nonprofit SisterLove Inc. I’ve heard similar stories over the years and know at least one woman personally who fell victim to a lover she believed was heterosexual only to find out, after marrying him, that he was gay.Īre men still operating on the down low or are these women outliers? Every day I am reminded of how I was conned.” “I have a serious problem with men that marry, have children all while going downtown for trysts in a car with a (male) stranger.
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“I do not have a problem with whom you sleep with,” she wrote. I only began considering the question after a reader wrote to me recently saying she’d been caught in such a tangled web. Are closeted gay men still having sex with men and women in 2019? RELATED: The silent epidemic: Black gay men and HIVīut really. Helene Gayle, then director of the CDC’s National Center for HIV, STD and TB Prevention. The most likely scenario in many of those cases in women was that their partner contracted the virus after having sex with another man, said Dr.
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Lynn Harris, whose novels followed the life of a man who struggled with his attraction to men and women.